As senior citizens age, many of them become unwilling or hesitant to celebrate their birthday. Most senior citizens will tell their families not to bother doing anything for them. Seniors have celebrated decades worth of birthdays and they don’t feel as though they need to celebrate another one. While it is important to respect your loved one, many senior citizens do want some sort of celebration.
Don’t Overdo It
Many seniors citizens will express that they don’t want to celebrate their birthday because they just don’t want a large production. If you are going to help the senior citizen in your life celebrate their birthday, keep it simple and you will keep them happy. A big “to-do” will likely give your senior stress and anxiety. Most seniors will appreciate something small and thoughtful. Purchase gifts that they could genuinely benefit from, put up simple decorations, and get a few of their favorite foods.
Ask Their Preferences
If a senior has been giving you a lot of excuses expressing that they don’t want a birthday party, consider just asking them what they do want. You might be surprised by their answer when they are given the opportunity to explain themselves. Some seniors might just want to celebrate with a few loved ones and not consider it a “party,” others might prefer to go out to dinner, and some might just want a cake. Asking your loved one will ensure that they are happy on their birthday which is much more important than giving your loved one the birthday party that you want them to have.
Limit the Guest List
You might feel that it is necessary to invite everyone you can think of to your loved one’s celebration, however, we suggest keeping the guest list minimal. Seniors often become stressed in social settings and if too many people are in attendance, they aren’t going to feel like the birthday party is for them at all. Create an intimate guest list consisting of people who matter to them. If they have friends that are unable to drive but would want to attend, make arrangements to pick them up for a special surprise.
Following these suggestions will ensure that your senior loved one gets a birthday party that they deserve and desire. For more senior news and advice, visit BEK Medical.
